Can A 50+ Man Find Temporary Happiness With A Much Younger
By Malcolm Goodway, Fri Dec 9th

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The following fictional dialog takes place between MalcolmGoodway, author of A Temporary New Wife, and a committed Skeptic:

S: Malcolm, you say that it’s perfectly possible for a man even… let’s say in his fifties, sixties or seventies … to establisha relationship with a considerably younger woman which issatisfying and rewarding to both of them. My first questionwould be, why would any a woman want to undertake such anarrangement? The obvious answer is that she’s trying to get himto set her up for life — maybe by marrying him and inheritinghis assets when he’s gone.

G: That’s certainly the conventional wisdom; but any man whoenters such a relationship without seeing that coming shouldhave his head examined. Still, it’s worth looking at thatsituation in detail to see exactly what’s wrong with it. Thefirst thing that’s wrong is that it’s dishonest on both sides.

S: Why do you say that? Isn’t it understood by both parties thatthat’s the real reason for the relationship?

G: No, not unless it was said up-front and became an altogetherexplicit understanding between them. Did she say, Look, I’mwilling to establish a sexual and maybe a cohabitingrelationship with you as long as you leave me whatever assetsyou were planning to leave to your grandchildren when you die. Ihope that won’t take too long.

Does he say, at my age I need an attractive young woman like youto excite me sexually, so I’m willing to let you believe you’llbe the heiress to all my assets. But I’m not planning to die anytime soon, and I’m still going to leave most of my money to myfamily members even though you think it’ll all go to you.Meanwhile, I’m planning to have as much fun in bed with you as Ican until the arrangement goes sour. But while it’s going on,you better stay away from men your own age or it’ll go sourpretty fast!

Said in this way, it’s pretty obvious that an explicitarrangement like this must be very rare. People do not say thatto each other up front. Instead, they each proceed along thepath of their own agenda even though these might be incompatibleat their base. The source of the dishonesty is thus implicithidden agendas. In other words, there is no clear agreement atall between the participants.

S: So, how would you avoid this kind of dishonesty between twosuch people?

G: First of all, I would remove any question of assets andbequests from the equation, and I would also not even considersetting a woman up into a paid parasitic existence. So what weare left with is an older man and a younger woman facing eachother. What do you think he can offer her?

S: Certainly not physical attractiveness, unless she has afather complex.

G: That’s not as rare as you might think. But as a firstapproximation, let’s say you’re right. What has he to offer?

S: What indeed? Are you going anywhere with this, or justpulling my chain?

G: How about knowledge and experience?

S: Yes, I suppose so. But while it might make for goodconversation at the dinner table, why would a woman have such acritical need for that?

G: Not any woman, such a specific type; or rather a woman with avery specific need.

S: Still can’t imagine what that could be. Do you really havesome kind of answer, or are you just playing mind games?

G: Think of a woman who, when very young, interrupted hereducation to get married, then quickly had children, and not toomuch later was abandoned by her husband because he couldn’t takethe responsibility for his family. There must be millions ofrelatively young women

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in that kind of situation.

S: So now she needs a big papa’s shoulder to cry on, right?

G: Not at all. What she needs is independence. And that meansfirst of all economic independence. If you want to look at itpolitically, it’s really the feminist agenda brought down intothe practical world. Without economic independence a woman willalways be dependent.

S: So even committed as she might be to such an a goal, whycan’t she get that herself?

G: In unusual cases she might, but I think in the typical caseshe’s going to need help.

S: Why do you believe that?

G: Think of the kind of economic situation she’s likely to bein. A low-level job to match her low-level education, withchildren to take care of too. Then if she’s intelligent, herlack of education must be especially depressing. She knows thatthe key to economic upgrading and independence is education. Butshe hasn’t the time to go to night school with her otherresponsibilities and she probably couldn’t afford all theexpenses even with student loans. There’s another kind ofproblem of equal importance too. She probably has lost her studyand learning habits by this time.

S: So some altruistic over-the-hill knight in shining armor isgoing to take her under his wing at this point?

G: I would put it in a much less cynical way. An older man willtake her under his wing, but he’s not so altruistic. Remember,the best contracts are those in which both sides benefitequally. He’s going to let her quit her job and study full-timefor a specified period, during which he will cover all expensesand help take care of her children. Almost certainly she willmove in with him.

He will mentor her in her studies on a daily basis and at theend of the specified period will not release her into themarketplace until she has a new job that does offer herindependence.

This will require a very intense and intimate connection forboth of them, tantamount to a marriage, but only for thatperiod. There’s no reason why it shouldn’t have a sexual aspectas well. So here we have it. The agenda on both sides is now allup front. They will live together just for a specified timeperiod in order to provide educational upgrading for her; andduring that time he will benefit from the sexual stimulationprovided by a younger woman.

S: Hmmm … Have you tried this yourself?

G: This isn’t a personal discussion. But my hero, Wilson, hasindeed tried it, with surprising consequences that keepexpanding and ramifying in the novel.

S: What’s it called? A Temporary New Wife? Where can I read moreabout it?

G: That’s what it’s called, and more information can be found atour web site,http://www.authors-sell-book.com/a-temporary-new-wife.html

S: I think this might just be some new and insidious form ofprostitution. Do you think that might be the case?

G: I don’t think it is, because it’s fundamentallynon-exploitative on either side. But that that issue is dealtwith extensively in the book.

S: Well … I’m not so sure. But as an older woman, why can’t Itry the same thing with a young man?

G: You can, and I encourage you to try it. It’s just that thereare so few young men in this situation compared to young women.But just the fact that you’re asking that question suggests thatwe may be coming at last to the limits of your cynicism, whichis an achievement in itself. But please do find a young man inneed of educational upgrading if you can.

S: Well, I’ll consider it … but come to think of it, my husbandmight object somewhat…

About the author:---Malcolm Goodway is the author of A Temporary New Wife, aprovocative new novel on senior sexuality, written by an activesenior for active seniors.

The book is available at Amazon.com: ISBN 0975311255, or athttp://www.authors-sell-book.com/a-temporary-new-wife.html

Malcolm can be reached by e-mail atmalcolm@authors-sell-book.com